last night i dreamt of exercising and decorating so maybe its a sign for me to get moving and get back down to a size 8 instead of a size 12 i will have to look it up in my bible.
well today has been very boring but productive the children went back last night ive loved every second of these past 3 weeks they are fantastic children. today ive visited my sister in law and had a good catch up on things shes the wife of my husband's (mr wing chun) brother you probably wonder why i call him that well its simple he is a very private man and he is a master in the art of Wing chun one of the reasons i went and met him i had watched IP MAN and became obsessed with the art so my dad told this man he worked with that i wanted to start training he also told my husband what i was like and showed him pictures of me and luckily mr wing chun liked me and said ok to training me so we met in town went for a drink and hit it off straight away i moved in that night and a week later we were engaged, people say we were stupid and acting thick but you know when its right and i can still remember the day we met as it was yesterday i had know idea what he looked like all i knew was he had a shaved head, but when i was waiting out the back of a pub downing my third beer with a dash of tequila i looked up from my phone and i saw this amazingly good looking handsome sexy fit man walk through and i watched him look and me then he tripped on a slab that was uneven and i knew it was him i knew i would marry this man i knew he would be mine and that day was the best day of my life and still to this day he makes me feel like were the only people on earth he still gives me butterflies and i still go weak at the knees and i still get that feeling deep inside me of wanting and needing he is by far the best thing to ever enter my life, secondly was my wedding day three days before christmas it was perfect, thirdly is my dog nuk she was given to me by mr wing chun the day after we wed, she was 6 weeks old pure white blue eyed german shepherd she is my baby. anyway completely turned the wrong way then sorry folks, my day has been so productive once i came back i fed my dogs and got on with the cleaning now ladies you may know that white floors are hell to keep clean ive scrubbed them vacuumed and ive mopped them, my kitchen has white white glossy units so you can imagine having two dogs and two children how dirty things can get well they are all shiny now, the house looks spotless ive worked very hard today so now im relaxing for a while before we take the dogs for a very long walk through the moors. WISH ME LUCK
Monday 15 April 2013
Sunday 14 April 2013
a day in the life of a step mom
I'm a 1950's housewife with a slight modern twist and a stay at home step Mother scrap the Mother part, sounds like I am a cruel nasty evil witch like in the old disney films i was brought up on i would say i was more like a Mommy and Auntie and Best friend to two wonderful children, I've started a blog as i have a few moments of peace each day when the children are playing and my two german shepherds are asleep, im 21 nearly 22 (may) im waiting on heart surgery to try and correct my WPWS and SVT hence why im just a housewife and a stay at home mom, i'd love to get back to work but ive got enough work of my own like ive said with the two kids who are 3 and 4 and two dogs which are 5 months and 7 months so really still puppies even though they are massive already, i was sat at my laptop one night thinking what i could do in my spare time the cleaning had been done cooking had been ate, baths had been given and the kids were fast asleep the husband (mr wing chun) was having his hour after work to have a shower and shave his head and face, the dogs ((Nuk-WGSD and Rocky-B/TGSD) were in the garden doing what dogs do best, and i came across a blog and it was saying about this woman who was a single mom and she didnt work and she started wrighting a blog and it was one thing she could do in her spare time without leaving the house with the children, so i thought id give it ago myself as i always used to write in my younger days and i enjoyed it very much. so here is goes.
my alarm goes off ah 7:45am just incase i'm not up by then, i go to the bathroom brush my teeth throw on my house coat and head down stairs sort my dogs Nuk the white german shepherd girl sleeps in the living room sometimes she may do a mess and sometimes she doesnt, today was a mess day, so i grabbed my detol and bleach and cleaned it all up at my, nuk sits by the sofa giving me her submission cower and then quickly glances up at me with her big beautiful multicoloured eyes and i melt how can i stay mad at such a beautiful girl shes my baby, i head into the kitchen when im greeted by my massive bog rocky he is a standard black and tan german shepherd but i think he may be crossed with a bull mastiff or great dane because is so big and his one ear still flops when he jumps up me i moan at how heavy he is and then he continues to give me the puppy dog eyes and i think to me self how could anyone beat this handsome loving boy the things that had happened to him break my heart and im so happy i found him, i take the stair gate off the door frame and nuk and rocky greet each other and then run to the back door and rocky opens it for nuk nd she goes out and has a quick run around then comes in and sit by the stairs waiting for the children to come down but their sound asleep still so help myself to a coffee and sit down in peace for at least 10 seconds then nuk jumps on me and tries to steal my coffee who knew a gsd would love coffee so much!
i check the time and its 8:30am the children are just starting to come down stairs saying they need breakfast and a drink while that i should do them some while they play, cheeky i know but you got to love them i get them to say their please and thank yous and i continue to do their breakfast today its weeto's i used to have them when i was small with the nutty professor person and a ship of some sort, as they finish their weetos they spill theirs drinks without fail every morning luckily we have woodern floor and its easy to get up but its white so therefore im cleaning the floors every hour, i go to sit down and then ive got to get back up again to feed the dogs which is a job in it's self nuk in the hall rocky in the kitchen these words to my self like a mantra just so i done forget because its still morning and i have been able to drink my coffee due to nuk so im still sleepy and dizzy.
we watch tv for a couple of hours the normal shows like BEN 10, PEPPA PIG, FIREMAN SAM AND this new STAR WARS cartoon/ computer graphics show and its so strange just like BABY JAKE whoever wrote that was deffo high on something, have you noticed that childrens shows are so noisey and loud and everything moves so fast what happened to good shows like when i was a kid, fireman sam was narrated so was noddy the old shows were more like a story now a days a child is lucky to know what a story is my step kids didnt know what a story book was! by 1:00pm its lunch now the fight is on! get the children to eat their lunch and have chocolate after is hard work they cry and scream somedays they love having lunch but today isnt one of them days, they refuse to eat their sandwich , they want sweets instead but i force them to eat their lemon jam sandwich and after i give them an apple a banana some grapes and then some chocolate fingers just to keep them happy, after they go and play giving my time to catch up on my shows like NEW GIRL, TANKED, TRUE BLOOD, VAMPIRE DIARIES AND AMERICAN HORROR STORY And THE WALKING DEAD, i also catch up on my reading.
by 5:30pm the dinners have been ate the cleaning have been done and now im just waiting for my gorgeous husband to walk through the door his coffee is waiting the house is spotless the kids are looking through the window to catch a glimpse of their very much loved daddy before he comes through the door, ive had a busy day the children made loads of mess the dogs were play fighting all day no matter how many times you tidy toys up its pointless untill its nearly noneyes (bedtime) so ive started waiting till they are eating their dinner and puddings to tidy their toys away, im in the kitchen when i hear the front door open my heart skips my legs go weak how can he make he this excited after so long everytime i see him its like im seeing him for the first time all over again i love my husband so much. he comes through to the kitchen kisses my dearly and slaps by bottom and takes his coffee and sits at the kitchen table to fuss the dogs as they get so excited the children know to wait until rocky has calmed down to come into the kitchen otherwise he would knock them down, i love seeing mr wing chun hold his children and play with them its so nice to a loving father like him.
10:45 its time for us to go to bed the kids have been in bed for hours by now me and the husband are having our cuddles on the sofa infront of the tv watching various shows and bits of films we both play a game on his phone i know its silly but we laugh and giggle together at this game, we head up for bed after saying noneyes to my babies the dogs, and we go and tuck the children in and kiss them goodnight and once we slip into bed we cuddle and were sound asleep, that night i dreamt of dogs dinners and shoppinh and the strangest one was nuk turned into a dolphin i will have to get my dream bible out for this one.
my alarm goes off ah 7:45am just incase i'm not up by then, i go to the bathroom brush my teeth throw on my house coat and head down stairs sort my dogs Nuk the white german shepherd girl sleeps in the living room sometimes she may do a mess and sometimes she doesnt, today was a mess day, so i grabbed my detol and bleach and cleaned it all up at my, nuk sits by the sofa giving me her submission cower and then quickly glances up at me with her big beautiful multicoloured eyes and i melt how can i stay mad at such a beautiful girl shes my baby, i head into the kitchen when im greeted by my massive bog rocky he is a standard black and tan german shepherd but i think he may be crossed with a bull mastiff or great dane because is so big and his one ear still flops when he jumps up me i moan at how heavy he is and then he continues to give me the puppy dog eyes and i think to me self how could anyone beat this handsome loving boy the things that had happened to him break my heart and im so happy i found him, i take the stair gate off the door frame and nuk and rocky greet each other and then run to the back door and rocky opens it for nuk nd she goes out and has a quick run around then comes in and sit by the stairs waiting for the children to come down but their sound asleep still so help myself to a coffee and sit down in peace for at least 10 seconds then nuk jumps on me and tries to steal my coffee who knew a gsd would love coffee so much!
i check the time and its 8:30am the children are just starting to come down stairs saying they need breakfast and a drink while that i should do them some while they play, cheeky i know but you got to love them i get them to say their please and thank yous and i continue to do their breakfast today its weeto's i used to have them when i was small with the nutty professor person and a ship of some sort, as they finish their weetos they spill theirs drinks without fail every morning luckily we have woodern floor and its easy to get up but its white so therefore im cleaning the floors every hour, i go to sit down and then ive got to get back up again to feed the dogs which is a job in it's self nuk in the hall rocky in the kitchen these words to my self like a mantra just so i done forget because its still morning and i have been able to drink my coffee due to nuk so im still sleepy and dizzy.
we watch tv for a couple of hours the normal shows like BEN 10, PEPPA PIG, FIREMAN SAM AND this new STAR WARS cartoon/ computer graphics show and its so strange just like BABY JAKE whoever wrote that was deffo high on something, have you noticed that childrens shows are so noisey and loud and everything moves so fast what happened to good shows like when i was a kid, fireman sam was narrated so was noddy the old shows were more like a story now a days a child is lucky to know what a story is my step kids didnt know what a story book was! by 1:00pm its lunch now the fight is on! get the children to eat their lunch and have chocolate after is hard work they cry and scream somedays they love having lunch but today isnt one of them days, they refuse to eat their sandwich , they want sweets instead but i force them to eat their lemon jam sandwich and after i give them an apple a banana some grapes and then some chocolate fingers just to keep them happy, after they go and play giving my time to catch up on my shows like NEW GIRL, TANKED, TRUE BLOOD, VAMPIRE DIARIES AND AMERICAN HORROR STORY And THE WALKING DEAD, i also catch up on my reading.
by 5:30pm the dinners have been ate the cleaning have been done and now im just waiting for my gorgeous husband to walk through the door his coffee is waiting the house is spotless the kids are looking through the window to catch a glimpse of their very much loved daddy before he comes through the door, ive had a busy day the children made loads of mess the dogs were play fighting all day no matter how many times you tidy toys up its pointless untill its nearly noneyes (bedtime) so ive started waiting till they are eating their dinner and puddings to tidy their toys away, im in the kitchen when i hear the front door open my heart skips my legs go weak how can he make he this excited after so long everytime i see him its like im seeing him for the first time all over again i love my husband so much. he comes through to the kitchen kisses my dearly and slaps by bottom and takes his coffee and sits at the kitchen table to fuss the dogs as they get so excited the children know to wait until rocky has calmed down to come into the kitchen otherwise he would knock them down, i love seeing mr wing chun hold his children and play with them its so nice to a loving father like him.
10:45 its time for us to go to bed the kids have been in bed for hours by now me and the husband are having our cuddles on the sofa infront of the tv watching various shows and bits of films we both play a game on his phone i know its silly but we laugh and giggle together at this game, we head up for bed after saying noneyes to my babies the dogs, and we go and tuck the children in and kiss them goodnight and once we slip into bed we cuddle and were sound asleep, that night i dreamt of dogs dinners and shoppinh and the strangest one was nuk turned into a dolphin i will have to get my dream bible out for this one.
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